Six Things You Need To Know About Your Wedding (part three)

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  1. Yolanda Finney says:

    I not married not planning to get married in the near future, but I’ve archived these tips for future reference!

  2. scoalson104 says:

    I would like give a big Amen on number 6! Been there, done that, still tell my really excited, detail oriented, get as much fun in as you can, planner of a husband, that a 6am flight was a terrible idea! Love all the other stuff too! We’ve been to a lot of weddings lately, and there’s nothing better than a wedding centered on the ultimate example of Christ!

  3. Laura M says:

    I would add that hiring a good photographer/videographer is key. The flowers will die, and you’ll never wear that dress again, but you’ll always have the pictures and video to look at later. You can skimp on other stuff, but not on the pictures!

  4. dress up kim says:

    Only wanna tell that this is extremely helpful, Thanks for taking your time to write this.

  5. Veronica Greear says:

    WOW. You are good at this. We did the whole 6am flight thing too, and yep, it was horrible (I WOULD like to add here that I was saying prior to that it would be horrible.) Don’t do it. And if we are adding things, I would add, if you have someone do a solo, have something GOING ON during it (communion, unity candle, unity sand, unity synchronized swimmer, wait, no) bc after about 30 seconds it is AWKWARD for everyone to be staring at you expecting you to be all cute and lovey dovey. ANd the song goes on seemingly forever.

    • Danny says:

      Laura & Veronica, I completely agree on your submissions. You can cut costs in a lot of areas, but photography shouldn’t be one of them. When we got married nearly 20 years ago, there was no creativity in wedding photography. I love the “new normal” of photography and would definitely create a much larger budget for it this time around.

      And Veronica, you nailed it. I try my best to talk couples out of too much dead space in a ceremony. If a solo is just going to happen come veil or high water (did you see what I did there?), I encourage the couple to zone out during that time and just talk to each other. It’s likely the first time they’ve had a chance to do it that day (especially if they ignored tip #1), and it’s not nearly as forced.

      Okay, now I’m going to go demolish something or eat some wings. I feel like I’ve lost some man cards in this conversation.

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